Content creator Saidaboj has stirred conversation online after criticizing men who fail to invest emotionally or materially in their relationships. According to her, a man who doesn’t show affection through thoughtful gestures but only offers sexual intimacy is no different from someone engaging a hookup partner — except the woman in the relationship isn’t getting paid.
She listed the absence of simple acts of love such as buying flowers, giving gifts, or planning dates as signs of a one-sided relationship lacking genuine care.
“Your man doesn’t buy you flowers, doesn’t take you out on a date, doesn’t buy you gifts. The only thing he offers you is g bola. There’s no difference between you and a hookup girl. They’re getting paid, you’re not,” Saidaboj said.
Her statement has triggered widespread debate, with many agreeing that affection should be expressed through consistent actions, while others argue that relationships cannot be judged solely by material gestures. The conversation continues to spark reactions across social media platforms, touching on self-worth, reciprocity, and modern dating standards.
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