“Marriage Still Upholds Patriarchy When Women Take Their Husband’s Name,” Lady Says

A social media user has sparked widespread debate after stating that women who take their husband’s last name or give their children their husband’s surname are still upholding patriarchal traditions.

According to her, marriage itself is a patriarchal institution designed historically to favor men, and many of its customs—such as name changes after marriage—continue to reflect that imbalance.

In her words: “As long as women keep getting married to men, taking their last names, and giving their children their husband’s last name, you’re still upholding the patriarchy, because marriage is a patriarchal institution set up to cater for men.”

Her statement has since gone viral, igniting a wave of conversations on social media about gender equality, societal norms, and the evolution of marriage in modern times.

The viral post has once again brought attention to the intersection of marriage, feminism, and identity, highlighting the ongoing discussion about how traditional practices can coexist with modern values of gender balance and equality.